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DIY Vintage Botanical Wedding

 Posted by on Apr 26, 2024 at 6:54 PM
Apr 262024
 
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DIY Vintage Botanical Wedding

The History of our Vintage Botanical Wedding

How did this vintage botanical wedding happen? Well, it happened in a blink of an eye. Only yesterday, my precious boy was asking for another bowl of cereal, needing to be picked up from soccer practice, and walking across a makeshift, pandemic stage with cardboard cutouts of admin, and all of a sudden he was a man. By a twist of fate, he ended back home from college for an operation and met a girl.

Nevertheless, when it’s the right one, it changes everything. My little man, was a grown man and there was no denying it. It couldn’t have been a more scripted meet-cute if I had written it myself. Head over heals, he knew he needed a career and joined the Navy. Finally, when we went to see him graduate from boot camp, his girlfriend went with us.

Interestingly, what you need to know is that twenty-eight years ago, I went to see my sailor graduate from boot camp in Chicago and he asked me to marry him (that’s a story for another time). Fast forward, with symmetry, poetry, and a lot of goofy romance, my son proposes to his girlfriend at the Chicago Botanical Gardens.

And badda-bing we’re planning a wedding so she can be with him at Nuke school in South Carolina. Her theme, of course, was to have a vintage botanical wedding. Rightly, what follows is a DIY, How To and bit of inspo for anyone else interested in a vintage botanical wedding theme, and since you’re on my site, I think you might be into that (wink). I’d like to believe if my characters (spoilers) in The Girl in the Jitterbug Dress got married, they’d have this type of wedding. Plus, my daughter-in-law is convinced I manisfested Chas (my son) going into the Navy because the love interest for Violet (1940s main character) is named Charles. Read it and you decide!

The Centerpieces

We had a total of nine centerpieces and the photog didn’t capture them all and I was too busy helping with food and trying not to ugly cry at my son finding his mate so early and so completely, that I didn’t capture all of our beauties. The vintage botanical wedding centerpieces were each unique and hand-crafted by me, my daughter, and my (now) daughter-in-law. You can save money making these vintage botanical wedding centerpieces bases by cutting your own wooden rounds or finding them on places like Amazon. I had looked online, but we were on a budget and so my sailor (now retired) cut them for us from a recently felled tree. In places, we had to glue the bark on with wood glue, but it worked out great. We used a glue gun to glue the bigger pieces and some of the hanging moss bits to the rounds and items. It peeled off easily later!

Where to Find Elements of Centerpieces

  • Thrift Stores for vintage botanical wedding idea
  • Yard Sales
  • Craigs List
  • FB Marketplace
  • Granny’s House
  • Amazon (dried flowers and moss)
  • Temu (Don’t come at me, great prices)
  • Antique Stores

Items to Include (but not limited to)

DIY Vintage Botanical Wedding bouquets

Bouquets, Party Favors & More

Sarah, my daughter-in-law, put together all the bouquets with vintage botanical wedding vibes with flowers both she and I bought. Ultimately, I have to say she did an amazing job. The key is to pick your color scheme and not go too far from it, adding flowers outward as you progress, the smaller flowers towards the outside. We also carried the motif through for the groom and bride table, the party favors (more on that below) and the pre-dinner charcuterie table. Here’s some inspo pix to help you:

Custom Seed Packet Covers for Wedding Favors

Using midjourney AI, I spent hours trying to get their colors and vibe to custom design covers (sticky back sheets) to put atop the ordered seed packets. Once I got images that worked, I had to spend hours tweaking them and then overlaying text with their wedding particulars. Then I found an ornate wooden shelf at a thrift store, turned it upside down, painted it, and added moss to display the packets on the gift table.

Blank Seed Packets for You

Since you’re my faithful readers, I want to give you the template to create your own. You’ll need to right click and download these blanks and then use a design program to insert text. I have an old PC and believe it or not I used Paint and Publisher to add my text.

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Have you had or helped with a vintage inspo wedding? What can you share that would help others? What info was the most helpful for you today? Please comment and share. I love to interact with readers! If this post have been of value, considering buying me a cuppa. click on yellow link!

Tam Francis is a writer, blogger, swing dance teacher, avid vintage collector, and seamstress. She shares her love of this genre through her novels, blog, and short stories. She enjoys hearing from you, sharing ideas, forging friendships, and exchanging guest blogs. For all the Girl in the Jitterbug Dress news, give-aways, events, and excitement, make sure to join her list and like her FB page! Join my list ~

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How to Host the Hottest Fourth Wing Book Club

 Posted by on Mar 3, 2024 at 9:39 PM
Mar 032024
 
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I’ve had my book club for over ten years now and as a result we’ve done some great reads with amazing food & cocktails, but discussing FOURTH WING was fire and because of that, I need to share all our amazing Fourth Wing Book Club fun.

Firstly, you can’t have a lively book discussion without interesting and thoughtful questions. Since I was the host, it was up to me to provide the questions, the location, and a signature cocktail that reflects the book. Secondly, we also try to bring foods that are inspired by or mentioned in the novel. As a result, my group of gals got really creative on this one! Don’t worry recipes will follow.

Fourth Wing Book Club Menu

  • Tam’s Happy Dragon Cocktail
  • Tairn Chacuterie Board
  • Baby Dragon Wings
  • Violet’s Poisoned Apples
  • Dragon Beef with rice
  • Dragon’s Eye Meatballs
  • Baby Dragon Hatchling Deviled Egg
  • Beet Bloody (on the sparring mats) Salad

First of all, I scoured the internet for questions, however I did not find the perfect match so, I made up a few of my own. In addition to my list, you can find my inspo HERE and HERE. Below are the Fourth Wing Book Club questions that worked well for us. Most importantly, I burnt the edge because, you know, dragons (I used brown cardstock)

Fourth Wing Book Club Questions

  1. There’s a trigger warning at the beginning calling out war, poisoning, death, brutal injuries & sexual circumstances. Therefore, how do you feel about content warnings? Above all Is it a spoiler or helpful?
  2. World-building is everything in a good fantasy book. Was the map helpful? Is the world complete? Even if Fantasy isn’t your genre were they any aspects that drew you in?
  3. Is Dain gaslighting Violet or trying to protect her? What’s his motivation? And have you ever experienced a friend or family member who did the same?
  4. “Because it hurts to think we’re the kind of kingdom that would do this. It hurts to rearrange everything you think you know. Lies are comforting. Truth is painful.” Violet’s realization that her academy leadership has been lying about the rebellion, venin & wyvern is a slow reveal throughout the book. However, did you see it coming? Can you give an example of how our own government does this? Does it ever serve the citizens to be deceptive in this way?
  5. Do you think Xaden was justified in keeping his secret? If not, when was the appropriate time to tell Violet? If yes, was it fair of Xaden to ask Tairn to keep the secret too? Can you truly trust a person or by extension love someone who you don’t know everything about?
  6. “While riders may be the weapons of our kingdom, it’s the scribes who have all the real power in the world.” Do you think Violet could have made a larger impact on correcting history as a scribe or as a rider? Violets father warned,“It only takes one desperate generation to change history. Even erase it.” and Tairn says “One generation to change the text. One generation chooses to teach that text. The next grows, and the lie becomes history.” Examples in our own history?
  7. If you lived in the book’s world, which quadrant would you want to be part of and why?
  8. Jack Barlow is a villain, but he doesn’t see himself as a villain. Have you ever been the villain in someone else’s story. Also, are people born bad/evil? Do you believe in nature or nurture?
  9. To know how to strike, you have to understand where your enemies—your friends—are most vulnerable. No one stays friends forever, Mira. Eventually, those closest to us become our enemies in some way, even if it’s through well-intentioned love or apathy.” Agree or disagree, if not enemy and adversary?
  10. Raise of hands…who wants to cuddle Adarna and take her home?

Tam’s Happy Dragon Cocktail

  • Bottle of Ginger-infused Vodka (preferably potato Vodka, but there are some lovely grain Vodkas coming out of Texas like Titos 1.75L)
  • Juice of 8-10 Fresh Squeezed Tangerine (I used Mandarin oranges)
  • 2 cups Home Made Lychee Syrup (made from canned lychee)
  • 4 Sprigs fresh rosemarry (3-4 inches long, muddled)
  • Dash of Liquid Smoke
  • 4 Sprigs burnt rosemary (3-4 inches long)
  • 2 cups Ginger Ale
  • Top off with Champagne or Proseco (top off in glasses)
  • Candied Ginger Garnish (aka Dragaon Scale)

Tairn Chacuterie Board

How to host a fourth wing book club baby dragon wings

Baby Dragon Wings

  • Basic Hot Wings. Ours had 3 flavors
  • Use WHOLE Chicken Wings
  • Garlic Parmesean
  • Buffalo
  • Garlic Ginger Soy
  • Fry, Bake, or (my fave) Air-fry

Violet’s Poisoned Apples

  • GHIRARDELLI Dark Chocolate (60% or darker)
  • Green Apple Wedges (cut or buy pre-sliced)
  • Gold Sugar Crystals (buy here)
  • Pat dry apples
  • Melt chocolate in a double-boiler
  • Dip apples in hot chololate, lay on wax or parchment paper
  • Sprinkle with sugar crystals BEFORE they cool
How to host a fourth Wing Book Club Dragon Beef

Dragon Beef

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Dragon’s Eye Meatballs

  • Lowfat Breakfast Sausage
  • 1 Cup Grated Extra Sharp Cheddar
  • Fresh Rosemary (chopped finely)
  • Dash of Dried Sage
  • Fresh Ground Pepper
  • Form into balls
  • Bake on foil lined pant for 20-30 minutes at 350
  • Dip (Honey Mustard mixed with Sriracha, chopped chives on top)
How to host a fourth wing book club baby dragon hatchling deviled eggs

Baby Dragon Hatchling Deviled Eggs

  • ½ cup water
  • 8 large eggs
  • ½ cup white vinegar
  • 1 (15 ounce) can sliced beets with liquid
  • ½ cup white sugar
  • Bring above ingredients to a boil (stirring constantly until sugar is dissolved)
  • Boil eggs for 10-12 minutes, rinse, drain, peel
  • Pour beet liquid over eggs, refridgerate for at least 4 hours
  • Cut in half and make your fave deviled egg recipe
  • Add strips of baby arugula for baby dragon hatchlings
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Beet Bloody (on the sparring mat) Salad

  • 3 Tbl Orange Juice (preferably fresh-squeezed)
  • 1 Tbl White Wine Vinegar (can sub red)
  • 1 Tbl Honey
  • 2 Tbl Olive Oil
  • 2-4 Beets (canned), Sliced or Shredded
  • 4 Cups Arugula Lettuce
  • 2-4 peeled and slice plums
  • 2 Crushed Pistachios
  • Lotsa Feta Cheese

Most importantly, you now have everything for an electrifying fierce Fourth Wing book club gathering to discuss and share this fabulous book. And always if you’ve read a book for FREE, please review for the author on Goodreads and Amazon and share your love and suggest others to read it! What recipe looks the BEST to you?

Epic Fail (aka bloopers)

Those were all the things that went right, but I tried to candy lychee fruit and Mandarin oranges. I thought the lychee fruit totally looked like little dragon eggs and how cute would those have been for a garnish on the cocktail. Unfortunately, I never got the sugar temp right or if I did the sugar just kept sliding off the lychee fruit.

In addition, I also tried to do another drink called Flaming Angry Dragon and I almost lit the kitchen on fire. I altered the recipe because the Bailey’s kept curdling. It was weird. Therefore, I substituted Blood Orange Liquor and it was tasty. Lastly, I topped off the shots with Everclear, but apparantly I dribbled some on the plate and it caught fire. Consequently, I tried to blow it out and blew Everclear across the kitchen to the stovetop. Thank God it was the stove. Let me tell you, I had some PTSD dreams about that. So, word to the wise, leave flaming shots to the experts. After we got the flames under control, we did the shots, but I so wanted to hand them out flaming, but in conclusion, better that they stayed on fire in the kitchen!

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Have you made recipes inspired from the novel? Which questions will you use in your book club? What’s your fave quote from Fourth Wing? Did you read Iron Flame, too? I know I did!

Tam Francis is a writer, blogger, swing dance teacher, avid vintage collector, and seamstress. She shares her love of this genre through her novels, blog, and short stories. She enjoys hearing from you, sharing ideas, forging friendships, and exchanging guest blogs. For all the Girl in the Jitterbug Dress news, give-aways, events, and excitement, make sure to join her list and like her FB page! Join my list ~

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 Posted by on Aug 9, 2022 at 10:40 AM
Aug 092022
 
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